Reconciliation is a good option

All diverging paths seem to converge at some time or the other. Couples meet, marry and separate, only to come together again. Actress-painter-singer Suchitra Krishnamoorthi and actor-filmmaker Shekhar Kapoor are a twosome again after their divorce in February this year. Actor Kanwaljeet is said to have reconciled with actress-wife Anooradha Patel too. And there were reports recently, which stated that Babita and Randhir Kapoor too might get back together. Their daughter Karisma and her husband Sanjay Kapur also decided to go back to being a couple after contemplating to part ways.

Why do so many relationships go through this rollercoaster ride of breakups and patch-ups? "One is unable to see the pros and cons of a breakup when in distress," says Delhi-based clinical psychologist Monica Kumar. "Once you have calmed down you are able to see that it may be a good thing to give it a chance. And sometimes we make impulsive decisions that we regret later."

She adds, "When there is threat to one's life and dignity, as in an abusive marriage, separation and going for one's own growth and healing would be good. But in an otherwise healthy marriage, separation may make you see things differently and want to reach out to your partner again."
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Article taken from the issue:30 Nov, 2007

3 years of life dedicated to mirrors

Do you notice the minutes ticking by as you rummage through your wardrobe for that perfect outfit, debate over heels or flats and touch up your mascara one last time before stepping out of the house? Guys always complain that women take forever to get ready, and here's the proof. According to a study conducted by British beauty brand Nephria, a woman spends nearly three years of her life getting dressed.

The study reported in the Daily Mail also reveals that it takes an average of 40 minutes for a girl to get ready every morning, and if it's coffee with a cute guy or a big night out, no less than an hour and 12 minutes. That's 22 minutes in the shower, seven minutes to apply lotions and potions, 23 minutes to dry and style those tresses, 14 minutes for makeup and six minutes to get dressed. The guy is left waiting for an average of 17 minutes every time he goes out with a girl. And if he's unlucky enough to tag along on a shopping expedition, he will spend at least one hour and two minutes waiting outside the trial room. Naturally, two-thirds of the guys surveyed said they were fed up of constantly waiting for their girlfriends or wives. But girls in this city are blessed as boys just don't mind waiting! Raunaq Kapur, an engineering student of Narayana College says happily, "If a girl is taking a long time, I know I can expect something good. She must be wearing something awesome, so I don't mind waiting for her." When asked if he too takes ages to get ready he says, "Most guys get ready quite fast and we hardly take any time to choose things while shopping."

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Article taken from the issue:29 Nov, 2007

Assam flares in assault shock

Violence continued to rock Assam on Tuesday following the 36-hour general strike called by the AllAdivasi Students' Association of Assam. More than 15 people were injured and several vehicles damaged in separate incidents across the state. The retaliatory violence during an unruly adivasi rally in Guwahati on Saturday, when an adivasi woman was stripped in public and assaulted, has, meanwhile, shocked a wide cross-section of people, including intellectuals and members of women's organisations, who have described it as "uncivilised" and "barbaric".

On Tuesday, security sources said bandh supporters attacked a group of All-Assam Students' Union activists near Bordubi village in Upper Assam's Tinsukia district.

The bandh supporters and adivasi students also attacked a police vehicle and injured a police constable. Two AASU activists were also wounded in a separate attack, a senior police officer at Tinsukia said.

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Article taken from the issue:28 November,2007

INDIA VS PAKISTAN - YUVI, DHONI SET UP WIN

Mahendra Singh Dhoni (63) and Yuvraj Singh (58) consolidated on the foundation laid by Sourav Ganguly (39) and Gautam Gambhir (44) to help India take a 1-0 lead in the five-match Indian Oil Cup ODI series here at the Nehru Stadium on Monday. Chasing Pakistan's 239/7 in 50 overs, India made 242/5 in 47 overs. A 105run partnership between Dhoni and Yuvraj for the fourth wicket ensured that India were home. India, however, started shakily. Sachin Tendulkar (4) left early playing across the line to Shoaib Akhtar's incutter. Sourav Ganguly, who opened with an airy slash over backward point, was tested by Gul.He was beaten on several occasions and twice the inside edges missed the stumps by a whisker.But after he settled down, Ganguly played some delightful shots. A lofted bowler's back drive stood out. The former India skipper fell as he tried to take a single pushing the ball to short fine leg.

Gambhir did not respond to the call and Ganguly was inches short of his ground when Kamran Akmal neatly collected Salman Butt's throw and broke the stumps. Gambhir also justified his selection ahead of Virender Sehwag. Batting at number three, Gambhir made use of the opportunities, scoring quickly before he was bowled round his legs by Shahid Afridi. At 113/3 in 21 overs, the game was evenly balanced. But Dhoni at number four and Yuvraj at five were very positive and approached the task professionally.They played the ball on merit but did not let the run rate drop keeping it over five.Pakistan lacked striking options after Akhtar and Gul and the back-up bowlers offered too much width. Earlier, the visitors won the toss and elected to bat. On a two-paced wicket it was never easy to score quick runs. But Salman Butt (50) was in excellent nick. On the day he batted beautifully till he misjudged a single and was run out. He pushed a Harbhajan delivery to short cover and went for a single. The ball went quickly to Yuvraj's left and the batsman was caught in no man's land.

Mohammad Yousuf (83 not out) then anchored the innings. Apart from these two blemishes, Yousuf played like a champion batsman and paced his innings beautifully. Yousuf had two substantial partnerships, first with Shahid Afridi (31 in 32 balls) and then with Misbah-ul-Haq (27 off 26) the first one yielded 59 runs in 54 balls and helped up the ante. The second one produced 69 runs in equally quick time. Without these efforts a challenging total was unlikely.
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Enjoy the safe festival of lights

Diwali is knocking at the door and the city is all geared up to celebrate the fes tival of lights with fireworks. Take care to ensure that no disaster mars the occasion. Rule of thumb: While bursting crackers, it is essential to be careful and not get over excited. Children should not be allowed to burst crackers in the absence of parents or a guardian. And as a cardinal rule, always maintain a safe distance from the crackers. Experts suggest that while bursting bombs, it is best to light them on the grounds. "Do not light bombs in your hands. This can cause an accident," says Dr Shivaraju, a consultant physician at KIMS hospital.

The doctor also suggests that crackers should not be piled and lit together; neither should one burst crackers in rooms or closed spaces. Also crackers must be kept away from the kitchen or any other places that has a gas cylinder. First aid to the rescue: Be armed with a basic first aid kit. "Creams like Burnol or any other ointment for burns should be kept at home. In case of a minor accident, remove clothing from the burned area, apply cold water followed by the medicated ointments. These act as anti septics and prevent further damage to the skin. In case of major burns, after applying the first aid, rush the victim to a hospital," Dr Shivaraju says. Unfussy attire: Wearing the right kind of clothing is also important while bursting firecrackers. While it is common sense to wear cotton clothes, designers opine that natural fabrics are more suit able than synthetic or nylon. However you need not worry about looking like a plain Jane. "Keep it simple and traditional during Diwali. Avoid wearing fussy clothes, especially while bursting crackers," says fashion designer Anand Kabra. He adds, "Do not wear flowy things or carry duppattas that may easily catch fire.
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Don't let the friendship be affected

Ending a relationship is never easy. In addition to the emotional baggage, there are friends to be considered as well. Dealing with mutual friends often becomes a problem, when a couple splits.
"My ex and I had a lot of common friends when we were together," says Carina Chopra, a research student with Jamia Milia, "But when we broke up, I ended up losing not just him, but some really good friends too." Many people share the same plight. When you and your ex embark on a relationship, you both are bound to make some common friends. But what happens if you break up? Does friendship have to go out of the window?

The answer is that it doesn't always have to be the case. You can move away from your ex without saying goodbye to the friends that you have made. First of all, you have to put the brakes on ranting about the breakup, at least to your common friends. "Save the explosions for your family and for friends that you knew prior to meeting your ex. Also you must keep off the trash-talk as far as your ex is concerned, no matter how wronged you might feel," advises student counselor Pravin Kumar."I made the mistake of ranting and raving about him to a common friend," laments Chopra, "I really wish I hadn't now. That was the catalyst to losing the friends I made when we were together." What you need to remember is that when you trash your ex to people who are your common friends, you're putting them in a tough place. They are both of your friends and they want to stay loyal to both of you.
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A bright career in dentistry

The in thing in dentistry these days is prosthodontics - part of the nine dental specialisations. This emerging career option deals with the replacement of missing teeth and related mouth or jaw structures by bridges, dentures, or other artificial devices.
Any kind of cosmetic dentistry, implants as well as maxillofacial prosthesis (artificial ear, nose, eye, orbit etc) all are clubbed under this specialisation. In a nutshell therefore, prosthodontics is the area where implants, aesthetic and reconstructive dentistry take place.
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